Okay so id like to start off this post on a positive note, by saying thanks for all the love from my previous post. Id also like to stress the importance of respecting yourselves specifically ladies. Theres SO much id like to say on this topic but we all know thats not what grabs readers attention. Straight up. So i guess ill leave that for another post.
Now that thats outta the way lets get to the business.
Sex is sex right?……….WRONG!
Sex is something id like to think of as an art. It can be perfect and at the same time could be perfected, theres always room for improvement. So if you think you got your sex game up more power to you, you may still wanna take this in tho.
TWO things i wanna make clear before we get started is confidence confidence confidence, the more confident you are with your body the more you can relax and the more fun youll have. Secondly eye contact, once again this is important fir engaging your partner. Your eyes tell a story remember that.
on with the show…
Now i believe i mentioned something about this in my last post and how important it was. Well im guna say it again here because it really and truly is. The more you build up anticipation the greater the pay off for both people. If you wanna just get to fuckin right off the bat you a basic nigga or a basic bitch, real talk. Even if its just a booty call/one night stand, if you wanna be able to call back you better make it good. Theres tons and tons of things you can do thats considered foreplay. So dont let this short list im about to give constrict you one bit.
You can do things such as:
-turn on some music, turn off the lights and dance with each other, now this may sound corny but im not talkin slow dance or soft shit like that (unless thats what you enjoy) but im talking about grinding, not no daggarin shit either, a quality wine is sooo much more rewarding than a quantity wine (a fast sloppy typa deal)
-making out, this gets you to heated real quick. start off with innocent kisses then get naughtier and naughtier, im talkin flickin earlobes, and suckin neck typa naughty.
-take a shower together theres more sensual than feeling your partners body soaking wet and rubbing up against you
-strip for him ladies.
- late him watch you touch yourself
-give each other naked massages, not only is this erotic but you be oiled up when you get to the sexing.
Well now you get the idea these are just a few ways to start things off with a bang.
theres really not much to say about it except remember what i said about the dancing, quality over quantity
always start off slow, not only does it prolong the experience, but it allows both of you to feel every single inch as it enters your body. Not only that intensifies the moment especially if you make eye contact.
NEVER BE QUIET! nothings worse than having sex and leavin the guy wondering if your still alive, what a turn off. Guys you better not be the ones making more noise than your girl either cause thats a huge turn off also. However fellas heavy breathing, and dirty talking in a low voice will send chills down her spine.
Now dont over kill the dirty taking either ladies and gents, keep it to a minimum the less you talk the more you can moan. Its hot to ask questions fellas like “you like that baby?” and if shes too busy moanin fuck her harder than ask again “i said do you like that baby?”, you get the point.
Now if you feelin real freaky and if your ladys down for this, pull her hair, smack her ass, and choke her. I love when my man gets freaky wit me. i love when he wraps my hair around his wrists while hes fuckin me from behind, i also love when he rubs his burner all over me and puts it in my mouth (DO NOT i repeat DO NOT try this at home lol im not promotin that shit but i cant help what i like.) Anyways make sure both parties are up for that rough shit or some bitches will flip on you and start tellin a different story…
Its also hot if you take breaks while fuckin. like hoppin off his dick and suckin it a lil bit. then put it back in and continue on.
ladies take initiative, dont wait for him to do everything, dont just lie there and take, give.
a lot of how a guy perceives you is subconsciously shown during sex. What i mean by this is, if your man or the dude your fuckin treats u like a rag doll off the bat, get outta there quick. do not tolerate that shit unless you both agree to it. By him doin it right off the bat shows he feels hes above you. theres a fine line between rough sex and straight disrespect. dont be blind to this.
And lastly when your done sexing suck his dick one last time just to “clean it off” i guess you could say. This is the icing on the cake.
So now that thats over with as much as he may want you to (fellas you know thats sooo rude) dont leave right away. it shows a lack of self esteem like you did something your not proud of and your trying to run away after, take some chill out time, where u can both wind down and take a breather, cuddle abit, watch a show, smoke a blunt w.e’s clever.
That concludes this post and i really like to stress that i truly believe you should do these things with someone you care about not just any random joe. Cause thats not cool at all, if you wanna be respected make sure you respect yourself first of all.
until next time,
Posted by LeahLikeWhoa